If it’s a friend
- 1If they’re in danger right now, call 911. Stay with them, in person or on the phone, until help comes.
- 2Ask them straight: “Are you thinking about suicide?” Asking won’t put the idea there. It tells them you’ll listen.
- 3Listen. Let them say it. You don’t need the right words, and you don’t have to fix it.
- 4Call or text 988 together, any hour. If they won’t, call or text 988 yourself. Either way, stay with them.
- 5Don’t keep it a secret, even if they ask you to. Tell an adult right away: a parent, a school counselor, Amy.
“There is nothing wrong with calling help. That’s not breaking trust. That’s love keeping its promise.”
Amy Mays